匿名ユーザーからの質問: Love your blog, been following you and your great little adventures for a couple of months now. You probably get this question a lot but I just HAVE to ask, curiosity killed the cat. Im Mexican, light skin, brown eyes and long brown beach wavy hair, but people always say I look filippina. Im 5'5 and 130 pounds, I work out so i have a bit of muscle, but also I have problems with my skin breaking out bad every now and then, do you think japanese boys will like me?
Seriously, think and look at this question.
I get these type of questions time and time again.
But honestly, I think they are idiotic questions.
Do you have the same taste as your friend? Does everyone in America only like people of the exact same type, height, weight and colour? OBVIOUSLY NOT! So how does that make Japanese guys any different.
If it was like that, everyone would just look the same or the world would die from lack of copulation.
匿名ユーザーからの質問: So where is a good place to meet and fuck girls like you in Tokyo?
I have no idea about where to fuck girls, the places I go are usually just full of Japanese guys my type.
Like me, being foreign, then roppongi?
Like me, being into sex, good luck anywhere, most likely Shibuya.
Since Hairdresser, I’ve fucked another 8 new people.
I’m so fucking behind!
I’m glad I like having the lights on…..
I had a guy come over on Monday and things were going quite well until I started rubbing my hand over his cock and when I got near the base, he kept his hands firmly there and was like “Let’s turn off the the lights, lets turn off the lights”
It just all seemed a little suspicious, and he knew it.
Because as soon as I went to go down on him, he paniced like a little bitch. I pushed him down and took a look at his cock in full light and low and behold, something I’m pretty sure was warts.
I stopped and told him, that I think he has an STD and should go to the doctor to get treated.
He tried to tell me that, it’s from when he cut himself shaving and he’s been the doctors and he’s fine.
I’m sorry mate but I’ve been shaving for years and never once have I grown something that looks like that.
Geez.
Don’t forget to check their cock for signs of diseases ;]
Let’s just say, we didn’t do anything more since the warts themselves are quite contagious and not protected by condoms, especially considering where he had them!
I finally decided to continue writing again, I’m still pretty upset over this guy but I guess I’ll just need to move the fuck on and man up. I’m not short of attention but I guess I lack the spark with many guys and since him there’s only been one other guy I’d possibily think about it working with.
But yes, Hairdresser is surprisingly a hairdresser.
We met up on his days off and sometimes after his work. We went on actual dates and took cute purikura together, talking about shit and emailing everyday.
Then, although he had told me he doesn’t use facebook, I found his profile.
After confronting him, he said he didn’t want his ex-girlfriend to see us and that although he will never get back with her, he is still harbouring feelings for her since he believed they would get married, feelings that makes him unsure about what we were.
I can’t stand how he lied to me, and how that again might be another cover up lie.
After arguing and not coming to a conclusion, we broke contact.
I’ve tried to reconcile with him, as I thought about if I’d want my ex on my facebook seeing pictures of him, which I wouldn’t. But it’s all been a bit bullshit.
He cancelled on me last minute last weekend and said he would let me know when his next day off is. After no contact for 5 days, I asked again and he said to wait. Another 3 days and I just said to him, you really still don’t know? That’s a lie isn’t it. Considering he updated his facebook with pictures of him (and you can obviously see a girls phone/little bit of her hair in the background), I took the move of deleted our chat history and to therefore cease waiting for his reply.
Fuck him.
Prick.
My biggest pet peeve, is guys who lead you on.
This guy, told me after about 2-3 weeks that he didn’t want me seeing other boys or flirting with others boys because he’d be jealous. I told him what if he gets with other girls, to which he said he wasn’t and that he likes me. He would hold my hand and kiss my forehead and the last time we met, he said he wanted to introduce me to his friends.
Talk about a fucking U turn.
匿名ユーザーからの質問: Hello there ! I just found your blog around 1-2months ago and I've been reading my way from the oldest post first until the newer ones ! *still have around 13 more pages to finish though* But omg just want to let you know that your blog is very interesting to read ! Also, I'm kind of curious, what is the normal age of japanese people to lose their virginity ? I heard quite a few lose it at a very young age and I just can't imagine it seeing how my japanese crush seems to be the quiet type @__@
It really depends.
Recently I slept with that guy who was a virgin and he was 30!
I’ve met guys who are around 19-20 and still haven’t had sex.
BUT I’ve also met a lot of guys who lost it when they were 13-15 ish.
My ex was 14, my ex before that was 16.
It’s the same in every country. You will have some people who loose it early and others who don’t. But even the quiet ones will surprise you
匿名ユーザーからの質問: Could you please give me an idea about the beauty standard in Japan ? Like, very generally -every country would usually have their own beauty standards like in Korea which favor v-line face, big eyes, often straight brows etc, so I'm just curious about Japan :3
The positive things I get told here…
“WOW your face is so small!”
“OMG your eyes are so big!”
“I LOVE how high the bridge of your nose is!”
In Japan, a small face is a a desireable thing. I’ve heard guys call a girl ugly by commenting on how big her face is.
Nose shape and small noses are a positive.
As far as I’m concerned most guys have liked girls with long curled hair.
I’ve been overwhelmed with a mass of questions, so I’m just going to answer a few today and tackle the rest tomorrow or Monday.
Today, I bumped into my ex. He ran up to me on the street and said he was excited to see me. It was kind of weird, I didn’t know what to say. He said sorry and he grabbed my hand. I told him if he’s working then he shouldn’t do that and he said he didn’t care and he’s going to quit soon anyway he thinks. He asked me to go to his tonight, but I said no.
I want to see him but blah. I have plans, and even if I didn’t I don’t feel up to seeing him just yet.
I also spent last night with Honey. He kept getting worried about his customers seeing us together, he made me walk ahead and wait around the corner like 2 times because he saw someone he knew. Ergh.
My hand hurts and I don’t know why :(
trayusacademyからの質問: Thanks so much for the great tips! We might wind up going to Atom actually, on Friday. One more reason to go buy new club clothes, haha~ Tokyo is such a great city, you're lucky to be here! (:
I can rarely go out on the weekend because I need to work.
Actually, I can rarely go clubbing since I have zero days off. Ever ha!
匿名ユーザーからの質問: I got around in Japan too and here are my two cents. Keep your head up. It’s not you at all; I think most Japanese guys are kind of fucked up. I think one can probably argue that guys in general are fucked up, but Japanese guys are a special kind of fucked up that maybe I can’t deal with because I wasn’t raised in this culture. In my 6 years of experience in Japan (30+ guys), I have made some general observations. I think Japanese guys in their 20s are jealous and get angry over the dumbest thin
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wtfharvestcrackaからの質問: things. They play mind games and can’t express their feelings very well. As soon as there is a problem, they blame it on you being foreign or them being Japanese and they never try to solve anything. They want to fuck a foreigner but they don’t want to get serious with one. A lot of them are stupid and also kind of racist, even guys from big cities who went to university. I feel like western guys are more intelligent and can appreciate girls who have opinions and openly voice them, but most Japa
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匿名ユーザーからの質問: Japanese guys can’t. They want their girlfriends to be seen and not heard. Also, I'm not overweight but I'm not as slim as Japanese girls either. No guy here has ever called me fat or told me I needed to lose weight to be with him, but I have been told I would be sexier if I lost a few kilograms. I nearly became anorexic to try to impress the dude who said this, which was stupid on my part. I had become pretty fed up recently and I’m in my late 20s now, so I decided that if I want to get marrie
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