5月 2013
36件の投稿
匿名からの質問：Hello there ! I just found your blog around 1-2months ago and I've been reading my way from the oldest post first until the newer ones ! *still have around 13 more pages to finish though* But omg just want to let you know that your blog is very interesting to read ! Also, I'm kind of curious, what is the normal age of japanese people to lose their virginity ? I heard quite a few lose it...
匿名からの質問：Could you please give me an idea about the beauty standard in Japan ? Like, very generally -every country would usually have their own beauty standards like in Korea which favor v-line face, big eyes, often straight brows etc, so I'm just curious about Japan :3
I’ve been overwhelmed with a mass of questions, so I’m just going to answer a few today and tackle the rest tomorrow or Monday. Today, I bumped into my ex. He ran up to me on the street and said he was excited to see me. It was kind of weird, I didn’t know what to say. He said sorry and he grabbed my hand. I told him if he’s working then he shouldn’t do that and he...
trayusacademyからの質問：Thanks so much for the great tips! We might wind up going to Atom actually, on Friday. One more reason to go buy new club clothes, haha~ Tokyo is such a great city, you're lucky to be here! (:
匿名からの質問：I got around in Japan too and here are my two cents. Keep your head up. It’s not you at all; I think most Japanese guys are kind of fucked up. I think one can probably argue that guys in general are fucked up, but Japanese guys are a special kind of fucked up that maybe I can’t deal with because I wasn’t raised in this culture. In my 6 years of experience in Japan (30+ guys), I...
wtfharvestcrackaからの質問：things. They play mind games and can’t express their feelings very well. As soon as there is a problem, they blame it on you being foreign or them being Japanese and they never try to solve anything. They want to fuck a foreigner but they don’t want to get serious with one. A lot of them are stupid and also kind of racist, even guys from big cities who went to university. I feel like...
匿名からの質問：Japanese guys can’t. They want their girlfriends to be seen and not heard. Also, I'm not overweight but I'm not as slim as Japanese girls either. No guy here has ever called me fat or told me I needed to lose weight to be with him, but I have been told I would be sexier if I lost a few kilograms. I nearly became anorexic to try to impress the dude who said this, which was stupid...
匿名からの質問：married and have kids someday, I’m probably going to have to go home and meet someone because Japanese guys and I don’t mix. That’s when I met my current boyfriend. He’s Japanese, but he is a few years older than me and he is not like typical Japanese guys. He also wasn’t particularly interested in foreigners, so when he was pursuing me, I knew it was for me and not...
匿名からの質問：So my advice is enjoy Japan, hook up with dudes if that’s what you want to do, but don’t expect anything from them because most of them are fucked up. Maybe you will get lucky like I did and meet a nice guy who loves you for who you are, especially if you go for older/not typical Japanese guys. It has happened for a few of my other foreign female friends too, so I know it’s...
匿名からの質問：You've mentioned using dating sites in Japan before, which ones do you recommend? (For guys and girls)
匿名からの質問："there’s a massive difference between someone wanting to fuck you and date you". i dont mean to offend you but you do realize that most of the time,you seem to act very sexy and the guys think you just wanna fuck them too? almost no guy gets serious about a girl who quickly agrees to sex on first dates, and they probably think you arent serious either so they dont even try. another...
匿名からの質問：Well I don't know, no one's ever told me I should diet. They always tell me how slender I am. I'm 5"6 1/2 and 127lbs.
匿名からの質問：If you are serious about losing weight (frankly I don't see any problem with that) then I suggest the ketogenic diet. Basically, stop eating carbs and sugar. Stick to meat, cheese, eggs, veggies. You can eat pretty cheaply in Japan if you're a seafood fan, and meat isn't too expensive. Cheese is a bitch though. Stick to that diet and you'll drop weight instantly and easily.
匿名からの質問：When I lived in Japan I gained a TON of weight because I gave in to endless rice consumption. For some reason, it works for the Japanese, but it just does not fly with Caucasians. Between all the walking and sweating you'll do, plus ditching the carbs, and you'll be rail thin in no time. And you'll probably feel healthier.
匿名からの質問：Also, don't compare yourself to J-girls and the ridiculous standards J-guys have as a result. You aren't Japanese, you can't ever be as thin as them. There is NO point in trying or comparing. It's pointless. A good guy will accept and understand that you aren't Japanese and can't have those standards imposed on you, in the same way that you can't impose your...
匿名からの質問：And as you well know, J-guys have a totally different value system than westerners. They can't help it, neither can you. If you want to eventually settle down and possibly marry (I don't mean to sound rude but I can't imagine you doing that) then perhaps you need to re-adjust your tastes because I don't think a J-guy is going to make you happy. Look at their culture. Most...
匿名からの質問：Most of their men are raised by their mothers alone and are lead to believe that they are princes. They emulate their fathers who don't respect women and will only ever see you or any other woman as sex objects that will raise their children with whom they will not have a relationship. The only way I think you can be happy with a Japanese guy is if he was raised abroad. Otherwise, he was...
匿名からの質問：Relationships seem to be important to you, ultimately. You want to be important to a guy--more important than their career. You always seem bothered by guys who shove you aside due to work. Therefore, ultimately, I don't think you should seek one in Japan. You know their culture. Marriage and families are only meant to bolster their career image. Make them seem more legit. But they...
匿名からの質問：i dunno. if you can fit into normal japanese clothes- not just the oversized stuff, then i'd say you're fine.
匿名からの質問：What are you doing to lose weight then?
匿名からの質問：Then I think the problem is the type of guys you're going for. I think it's it's horrible that a guy would tell a girl to lose weight, especially if he's with her. And if the guys only see you as someone to sleep with then I think that's further proof that you need to change something. If any guy I was with told me to drop a few pounds I'd tell him to fuck right off.
匿名からの質問：dont you think there could be other reasons than your weight for having bad luck with guys? for example your CHOICE of men? that host boy, do you really think he would quit his job as a HOST (which is basically seen in japan just as bad as being fat) and got married to you only because you lost weight? and even if he did, do you really believe it would be a happy marriage!? i mean come on, id...
匿名からの質問：How can you be gaining body issues when all you ever do is pull cute guys!
匿名からの質問：I'll be going clubbing soon in Japan and I really want to get with a Japanese boy. I'm kinda shy though...What do you have to do to pull? Can you give me some tips?
So I was going to write about 65, but I’m still so pissed about the whole thing that I don’t want to write about it yet. Let’s just say, we spoke about dating. And now we aren’t talking. Fuck that piece of shit. I’m on 68 now, so maybe I’ll just skip him for now and write about the others. I’m gaining some serious boy/body issues in this country.
I can’t decide if I might be a nympho or I just hate boys right now.
Number 64. The one who likes Horror Films?
So, this guy kept asking me to come over and kept saying we should watch a film together since I said I quite liked horror films and they were his favourite type. I complained it was so far away and that it was too expensive and he should come to mine, but after he said he would give me the train fare, I agreed to come. I doubt he would of actually gave it to me but blah. So I met up with him...
Number 63. Big Dick'd Gentleman.
Ok, so this guy I first met in a club. and well I’m not going to lie, he chatted up my friend and ended up going back with her. At the time, I was still with my EX, so I wasn’t on the prowl. But I did think he was cute.
The day after, he sent me a message online and said thank you for letting him take my friend away. I said it was no problem and asked if I was OK etc. We spoke a...
匿名からの質問：I wish I was like you, but I always feel bad afterwards when I have sex with a stranger.
trayusacademyからの質問：Hi! Long time follower here. I'm on a vacation in Tokyo from Europe, staying for two weeks, and I was wondering if you could recommend some fun things to do? I'm 19 so clubs are unfortunately a no go I think, so we're a bit at a loss as to what to do in the evenings! You have a really great blog and I love reading it, you have so many exciting things to tell! Thanks in advance for...
匿名からの質問：Have you also seen or spoken with your previous ex BF* (The exchange student; the one you met in your home country)?
匿名からの質問：How old are you? =O
匿名からの質問：Now that you're back in Japan, do you see or speak to Honey* or Rui* anymore? Any more updates on Band boy*
I hate boys.
As soon as I find a guy I actually like, one that I actually want to date, one that I think is actually a decent guy and not a player or a liar or a dick. I’m always very sadly mistaken. There a guy I’ve been really into lately. (number 65) I’m backdating so please be patient. Basically said he doesn’t know if he likes me, oh we’ve just been sleeping together and...
4月 2013
29件の投稿
Kimoi as FUCK!
So, another guy from a dating site. Since he lives in same city as me and it was my day off I agreed to meet him. Once again, he was nothing like his picture. Luckily the other guy was still attractive, but this guy looked like he was using a picture from ages ago and had gained weight and just ergh. He couldn’t even make up for it in personality. So, I gave him the benefit of the doubt...
62 - Kitakyushu.
So, number 62 was some guy who moved to Tokyo a few years ago but was from Kitakyushu, I’m getting so original with the names really. I met him on some dating site type thing and he was not as attractive as his picture but he turned out to be a pretty nice guy. I had planned to meet him a few times before but it never went to plan, so one day we agreed to meet after I finished work and I...
Ex-Boyfriend.
Even though I broke up with my ex-boyfriend a while ago now, over two months ago.
We’ve still slept together maybe 2-3 times. I knew he was having a hard time, so we were talking and I offered to take him out for food. Before hand, I told him I wanted to go to yakiniku and that I was starving.
So we meet up and I ask if he’s hungry. “Not really, I ate ramen about 2hours...
lyricfromsongnotmeからの質問：oi,,, i'm not judging you.
匿名からの質問：I crave the single life again, the no strings attached sex, the drunken nights of mad sex, the walk of shame, the ever forgetting numbers, not feeling judged because you'll never see them again. Gah!
匿名からの質問：This is a friend, I had a taster of my old life and I want it back. Help?? I am one of the friends who encourage you, I must say.
匿名からの質問：Wow you replied really fast thanks!! I always heard it was pretty easy to get band boys specially from indie bands but label guys are harder to get but you never know!! I think that they are such a players because they have lots of girls to choose from and they don't want them to be all clingy and such anyways I know I shouldn't be asking but for some reason when a read your story this...
匿名からの質問：i love love your blog! so happy you've updated again. i'm going clubbing in tokyo next month, maybe we'll run into each other :)
Number 61 - Virgin
So there was this guy who always came where I worked and I liked his style. He speaks an OK amount of English and we had some of the same interests so I decided to give him my email address and see what would happen.
He sent me an email and we made plans for a Saturday after I finished. We went to a rock bar and chatted, but I said I needed to catch my last train. We didn’t keep track of time...
Number 60 - Kabukichou Shimei
So, this is the 60th guy I slept with. I met him in Kabukichou in his club. Honestly I was so drunk I didn’t even remember taking his number or speaking to him, but as I was on the train home my phone rang. I didn’t actually know who it was but they were asking me to meet up and hang out. I said I was on the train so if they wanted to see me they would have to come to my house....
I’ve been a little bit missing in actions lately, but I’ve still not caught up on all my sexcapades. :( SO, I’m going to do a very short REVIEW on each guy now.
Just to get this blog totally up to date.
匿名からの質問：Hi there!! first things first I love your blog ♥ and I wanna thank you for being so brave to share your stories and your ability to overcome every question your "shoot them all attitude" is amazing!! btw I really enjoy the "famous" guy story I always heard that is pretty easy to fuck band guys but I was a little exceptical fangirls have a vivid imagination...
匿名からの質問：Could you maybe one day post a pic of your body? Not asking for pervy things!!! >< I just feel so insecure with how my body is and I read how your body is not perfect and yet you get the guys, so it'd be kinda an inspirarion, please? at least think about it?? (OuO)??
匿名からの質問：What do your friends back home think about you sleeping with lots of men? do they judge you?
1-0-9からの質問：dude i am legit jelly of you. how are you able to hook up with so many guys here??? guys often hit on me, etc. but nothing has ever come of it, wtf am i doing wrong D :
匿名からの質問：Hi! I know you talked about it a while ago, but I watched videos with Kei in them (omg WOW), and I really really want to see him with a girl. Do you have any links?