It really depends.
Recently I slept with that guy who was a virgin and he was 30!
I’ve met guys who are around 19-20 and still haven’t had sex.
BUT I’ve also met a lot of guys who lost it when they were 13-15 ish.
My ex was 14, my ex before that was 16.
It’s the same in every country. You will have some people who loose it early and others who don’t. But even the quiet ones will surprise you
It really depends.
The positive things I get told here…
“WOW your face is so small!”
“OMG your eyes are so big!”
“I LOVE how high the bridge of your nose is!”
In Japan, a small face is a a desireable thing. I’ve heard guys call a girl ugly by commenting on how big her face is.
Nose shape and small noses are a positive.
As far as I’m concerned most guys have liked girls with long curled hair.
I’ve been overwhelmed with a mass of questions, so I’m just going to answer a few today and tackle the rest tomorrow or Monday.
Today, I bumped into my ex. He ran up to me on the street and said he was excited to see me. It was kind of weird, I didn’t know what to say. He said sorry and he grabbed my hand. I told him if he’s working then he shouldn’t do that and he said he didn’t care and he’s going to quit soon anyway he thinks. He asked me to go to his tonight, but I said no.
I want to see him but blah. I have plans, and even if I didn’t I don’t feel up to seeing him just yet.
I also spent last night with Honey. He kept getting worried about his customers seeing us together, he made me walk ahead and wait around the corner like 2 times because he saw someone he knew. Ergh.
My hand hurts and I don’t know why :(
I can rarely go out on the weekend because I need to work.
Actually, I can rarely go clubbing since I have zero days off. Ever ha!
5 of 5
4 of 5
3 of 5
2 of 5
I don’t expect things for most guys actually.
In total, I’ve fucked 19 new guys this time and 3 guys I already knew.
Dated one, didn’t work out.
Wanted to date the korean guy, didn’t work out but then he got angry when I got a bf and now ignores me because he’s jealous.
Wanted to date some guy I’ve not wrote about yet, isn’t working out.
The rest, I didn’t even want to date. I didn’t expect anything but sex or want anything else for that matter.
But I had one guy who wanted to date me, too clingy.
Another guy who wanted to date me, too blah… However, both spoke English.
I think the language barrier can be tough, and I’m not studying lately, opps.
I do also consider that I’ll find a better guy back home, but who knows. But I think, I’ve experience the same shit there and here, guys generally don’t express their feelings well. Anywhere.
But my pet hate is the “I’m Japanese”, because that is NOT a fucking excuse or reason to be a dick. I totally agree with you on the most part, but boys are boys. I think cultural and moral differences are going to occur everywhere, I just need to meet a guy who is very willing to understand that I’m not Japanese as a lot of them seem to forget.
I honestly think one of the things is a lot of guys don’t want to settle down at that age. They want to go out and play around for the most part.
Also since I’m studying here, the inevitability of my leave in the near future, puts off the ones who are actually serious. That was my last problem, if I date a girl, its for the long term. So leaving in the near future, would be tough.
although that seems like such a bullshit excuse.
I really don’t know.
I’m glad you happened to find someone nice and worthwhile :)
My friend suggested badoo so I used that. Mixi used to be quite good for it and I’ve also used facebook to some success.
There’s an iphone app called eyeland, that’s meant to be good but I didn’t like it so much actually.
Honestly, I don’t think guys know about my sluttyness.
When they ask if I sleep around, I say I don’t.
When they say I seem popular, I say I guess so but usually they aren’t my type so nothing happens.
When they ask about my past boyfriends, I seem quite picky. Recently broke up with my ex, before that I was single for a year and half.
When they say, I bet lots of boys stay over, I say no and I only asked them to stay because it was late and I wanted to drink for a while and I wouldn’t be able to hang out with them if they didn’t stay.
Unless, I’m totally not into the guy in which I tell them I’m a player.
If I like the guy, I honestly don’t think I give a massive impression that I’m just after sex. With some guys, yes, because I don’t want anything else.
And sometimes, I tell the guy we shouldn’t have sex because it’s too soon. I tell them I’m shy. I say I don’t know if it’s a good idea.
Then they tell me it’s ok and they like me, and we do it anyway just as I expected.
But yeah, language barrier does suck.